Distinctions: Counseling, Spiritual Direction, and Theological Supervision
Counseling
- deals with feelings that arise from data
- aims at personal integration; self-identity
- is built upon/acknowledges personal strengths and weaknesses
- general ratio: 75% feelings, 25% data (people, events, etc., surface the feelings)
Spiritual Direction
- deals with interior disposition of a person's spiritual life—"the soul"; e.g. quality of prayer, relationship to God, personal faults and failings, etc. Has the goal of interior peace which arises from personal integration and which allows for self-direction of wholistic ministry
- sacred relationship; total confidentiality about the conversation; not shared; informal model; very directive approach; authority to probe questions of the spiritual journey
Theological Supervision
- deals with ministry and how one functions as minister
- a shared collaborative model of one-to-one to many (institution)
- a professional relationship of one who has demonstrated wisdom/experience to share with one who has not—yet
- deals with 75% data of public ministry and the act of ministering
- deals with 25% feelings (tag feelings when they occur, don’t deal with them); e.g., What is happening?; Who are you in this happening?; Where is the Lord in this happening?
- assigned relationship—time structured
Theological Reflection is always appropriate.
Counseling and Spiritual Direction need relationship
Supervision requires trust but it is a ministry of preparing another for service in the church